Fitness of course, but Health …

Okay, I am trying, I am … I am trying to drink more water. Hydration is key and “OH!” to the times of me being dehydrated! I was on average drinking maybe 8-20 ounces of water, a day. Now, my goal is to drink 50-60 ounces daily.

I am on week two (2) or maybe three (3) 🤔, I believe. I can do this and stick with this too! 😉 To be honest, I start this up and I do good for about a week, but then I usually stop. So, trying to stick with it this time …

I was told by many that you are to drink half of your body weight in ounces.

That to me, I was like, there is NO WAY I can drink that much WATER daily! Where my husband drinks like a gallon of water daily. Drinking a good amount of water, just isn’t as easy as one would think? 🤔 Especially, if you are not use to it (like me.)

Here was my normal daily routine of drinking beverages. I would wake-up and drink my morning coffee, and then I may sip on water here and there. Then I would have a cup of hot tea in the afternoon, then I finally would drink water with dinner and before bed. So, I was drinking fluids, but WATER, not so much. So, I am consciously trying to drink 30 ounces of water before 12:00 noon and then the next 30 ounces before sleepy time.

I keep reminding myself (so I stay motivated), that you are flushing out toxins!!! Try it, it helps … 🤷🏻‍♀️😉

You see, in the last ten (10) years I have learned much about my body, more in regards to my health and how my body responds to certain things, like food. I mean, once our first little love was six (6) months old … (on Christmas Eve to be exact.) We were leaving a family party and my mouth was suddenly in pain. I initially thought, I must have burned my mouth on something. As the days, weeks, months progressed, the pain intensified!

My tongue was sooo sore and my mouth would always have canker sores and this was only one (1) of my new found issues/symptoms. However, it was one of the WORST too. I also had joint pain, fibromyalgia pain, GI issues, weird anxiety, a rash on my upper arms, etc. I thought for awhile, (and certain Doctors confirmed) it was hormonal , postpartum … after all I just had a baby. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Today, I am gluten free and labeled “Undiagnosed Celiac.” Mainly because I just get too sick from gluten, and I can’t eat it long enough to be tested. (To be honest, I no longer need to be told I have Celiac Disease.) I tried a few years back to go through testing, (per my Doctor.) First step, was to go on a gluten challenge. I made it to only, day three (3), goal was to eat gluten for twenty-one (21) days. 😬 After dealing with pain, (fetal position pain) off and on for over 24 hours and ongoing GI issues, my Doctor said to stop eating gluten. When I went into the Doctor’s office, he said, “Clearly gluten is no good for you, so DO NOT eat it! Listen to your body, and if you need a diagnosis … I am diagnosing you with Undiagnosed Celiac!”

I also have a family history of Celiac Disease, Crohn’s Disease, Diverticulitis, Thyroid Disease, etc. (which many or maybe all 🤷🏻‍♀️ are autoimmune) So, it was inevitable that I would end up with something at some point. I mean, I have been told that I have had many things, since I was a kid. I was diagnosed and placed into categories like IBS, Lactose Intolerant, Interstitial Cystitis, Keratosis Pilaris, etc. All come to find out, are are linked to Celiac Disease and can mimic or even cause these symptoms, and when I gave birth to our first little love, WOW to the symptoms!!! Hence the beginning of me, going gluten free. (When she was around eight (8) months old to be exact.) Then, I ended up pregnant again with our 2nd little love, when she was just ten (10) months old, so I stopped my gluten free diet per my OBGYN’s request. At the time I was deficient in certain vitamins too, so she put me on a prescription prenatal vitamin. She explained to me that eating gluten while pregnant, may be more beneficial to the baby and it may not bother you while pregnant too. She explained that staying gluten free while baby is in utero, could actually bring forth an allergy to baby earlier, if not exposed to gluten. So, I ate gluten (and it was delicious) and I was not bothered by it either. 🙏🏼 However, after our 2nd little love was born, WOW again to the symptoms. So, I officially went gluten free when she was just a few months old and I have been gluten free ever since.

I tried to eat gluten again while pregnant with our 3rd little love, but at this point I no longer could, because it made me sick. More so with fibromyalgia pain, joint pains, tongue pain, canker sores, etc. and here’s the crazy thing too, our littlest love came out with Eczema and still has episodes of Eczema. So, could it be because she wasn’t exposed to gluten while in utero like my one OBGYN explained. 🤷🏻‍♀️🤔

I have been doing research too on different foods, plant based foods, avocados, red meat, protein, etc. Trying to figure all out. As I have been researching and looking into nutrition, as a whole. Foods are actually medicines for our body, so like “eating” is hugely important. Helps with so much from our sleep, anxiety, to hormonal health, etc.

I never looked at food this way, I looked at it as, “I am hungry, is it dinner time, okay eat!” or “I am NOT eating that!”

So, like I said, looking into nutrition more so now. As well as HYDRATION. Also, fitness, and getting back into it because I just feel better over all when I am working out. Trying to run more, walk the miles too, just basically loving cardio, but as we all know …adult life, parent life = busy life!

Starting an “Actual Blog” …

Okay, here goes, Happy Monday … as you have seen, I am starting an actual blog. A blog where I will actually try to “more so” take moments throughout the week to spend an hour or so writing, posting, researching, sharing.

So, again I say, “here goes!”

Just paid for a domain too (eee 😉) Well, we have the money now, so saying bye bye to all of the free sites that I have used since becoming a Mommy.

Pause – still have no real clue how to do this, “this” meaning – starting an actual blog? It’s okay though, I got this … There’s Youtube, Pinterest, Google (although I question google because seriously what is going on there … anyone else realize that you cannot google the way you once did?) Now, finding time to research all it entails to become a blogger, that’s another story? 🤷🏻‍♀️

So, blogging, writing … I mean, it’s an actual “thing” … seriously … If you follow influencers, you tubers, etc. Many do have blogs. So adding “my new blog” to my to-do list. 🤷🏻‍♀️

You see a few years back, my bestie once told me, during one of our morning conversations, “You hold yourself back.” My husband then confirmed this when I asked, “Do you think I hold myself back?” … They both ended up saying the same thing, “You aren’t a risk taker, some take risks and aren’t afraid of failure!” Well, this got me thinking … 🤔

Coming from them … it just made me think. 🤔 You see, they both are indeed successful and they both will take risks. They aren’t afraid to take a risk (or to make a decision, is a better word) in their professional worlds. I guess they’ve learned that you will never know, unless you try or say yes or no. They often say, “If it doesn’t work … then okay, let’s try something else.”

To be honest, maybe this is why he is an Excutive Director at an Ivy League University and she owns her own business in the field of plasma/science.

Throughout the years, I have enjoyed meeting so many in my circle … but these two, just so very blessed by them. One, to be married to my love and my best friend, and two, to have a gal by my side since HS. I just think and talk very highly of these two, not just because they are my husband and my best friend. I am just so proud of them both, setting goals, sticking with their goals, and their work ethic, their achievements, and their success.

So, I am going to stick with blogging, or at least try to stick with it …

See I am a gal who’s always setting goals. I achieve some and let others go because that’s just “me.” 🤷🏻‍♀️

My first priority though, is always my family. We decided, while expecting our first little love that I would be a SAHM, so I gave up the career world. It’s crazy looking back because it had it’s challenges for sure, especially in the beginning, but I definitely do not regret it, not even for a second.

Throughout the years, I have taken on other roles while being a stay-at-home mommy. In volunteering at our church, our girls’ school, and their activities. I was a Cheer Coach, an Etsy Shop Owner, now an Etsy Shop Manager, a Coaches Wife, now a Scentsy Consultant, etc. Here’s my website for Scentsy ➡️ http://jenniferbendas.scentsy.us

So haven’t exactly been bored by any stretch of the means, but now an actual blogger with an actual domain 💗…

so, yay, to be continued 😉

It’s a Scentsy thing …

Cozy Styling, my niche as I have mentioned is finding that cozy in life. Like what makes you feel good and gives you that extra happy? We all need that cozy from time to time.

Mine currently are things like a little matcha, getting a run in, hot yoga, listening to a sermon, date nights, family nights, maybe a bath, praying, and so forth …

Another one that I set-up for myself, (2 years ago to be exact) was/is Scentsy. I signed on as a Scentsy Consultant. Why, are you asking? It was simple really, I spent close to $200 in a single month on Scentsy. I then joked around with my girl who I bought from and said, “Maybe I should just sell this stuff at this point?” She responded with, “You actually should, you alone would keep yourself in business.” I laughed to myself and then I said, “Wait a minute, really, what do you mean?” 🤔 She explained all the details, and here I am … Been a Scentsy Consultant for 2.5 years now, with my next promotion being Director.

So, why did I sign on? … Well, after the conversation with the girl I bought from/my Sponsor, who’s now a Director and then talking it over with my husband, it was a no brainer … but to be honest, I also wanted something part-time, while all 3 of our babies 💗💗💗 were now going to be in school.

With our busy schedules, with a young family. Heading back out in the working world was a no go for us. I am a busy wife and a busy mommy. Heck, I am a busy gal. So, working from home, yes please!

… and what a blessing, truly!!! 🙏🏼

I mean I make more money now, than I did working partime before having babies. So thankful to my customers and for my Scentsy family, and for my teamies.

You may be asking, what are teamies? Well, each Scentsy Consultant has the opportunity to have a team. My teamies I have met throughout the years. Some I worked with, some I am friends with, some, our daughters played Soccer ⚽️ together, some were customers of mine and others I have not even met. Crazy, right? So many have wanted to sign on as a Scentsy Consultant.

If you’re thinking of having a little extra something while being at home or maybe you just want an extra something, so you can plan your next Family Vacation. You can make your Scentsy Business as little or as big as you like! It is completely up to you … 😉

Let’s Blog About It …

Do you want your own blog? Do you even want to be a blogger? What even is a blogger and why do “they” bother sharing a little of this or a little of that? 🤔

My husband actually just said to me (this morning actually.) Why babe? What is the point? Just continue in your success with mommying, helping others, volunteering, Scentsy, and all the things. You do not need anything extra. We do not need anything extra. 🤷🏻‍♀️

As you are reading you may be agreeing with my husband, but you may also be saying let the gal do her thing. My response was, “Babe, I don’t know? It’s not about money. I want my “own thing” too, in between mommying, being a coaches wife, my husband’s wife, Scentsy, volunteering, etc. and I like to write and have done so, off and on since becoming a Mommy.”

I mean secretly … (or maybe now that I am blogging today it’s “outwardly!”)

I would love to have this little blog take off in some sort of fashion. I would love for Cozy Styling to turn into my own personal business (along with Scentsy) for not only myself, but for my family too.

Me & my little family 💗

I mean let’s be honest, how in the world do bloggers actually make money? I mean, I am pretty curious on how this actually could turn into another job? I find myself looking into it and then a text or call comes in, mommy gets called, I get distracted, etc. So, I get NO WHERE!!!

I have mentioned somewhere along the way though, that for whatever reason a “blog” seems to always come back to my mind and stay on my heart. I often will forget about it (because in the world of mommying, parenting and adult life), life is busy. Then something will remind me to blog again and stick/stay with it.

I don’t publish my blog posts regularly either 😬 so I have like 17 or so in my drafts. (Actually they are now saved as photos in my phone (haha) because I now have started my very first ACTUAL BLOG with its own domain … which is the reason to why you are reading this first blog post, so yayyy cozystyling.com)

So, for now, I am going to just enjoy this little hobby of mine (and I just read not to call it a hobby too 😬 … oh boy so much to learn), but like I have mentioned, I enjoy writing.

I look back and during college, a few professors actually tried to encourage me to minor in English/Writing. 📝 They loved my Writings/Essays and would tell me that I had a natural talent. Which, was such a sweet compliment … but a career in “Writing” Really? What would I even do with that? Become an Author?

I mean, a runner, yoga & pilates ☑️
… but an Author 🤷🏻‍♀️

It’s crazy really because we all have goals and even dreams in life and it’s not always easy to focus on/stay focused on these goals.

The fact is … life is busy, like when I began writing this blog post, I was running all day, Both figuratively and literally and I was in our just turned 6 year old’s room, waiting for her to go to sleepies. She wanted mommy, wanted me to put her to bed. (My husband and I take turns. We come in, tuck her in, give her kisses, pray with her, and then we sit and wait. Eventually, we know she will not care if we are in here, but for now she cares and wants us to stay, so we stay.) Sometimes while I am in with her, I will read, or I will research, I will pray and sometimes I will blog.

So, back to starting a blog. Where do I even begin with blogging? I guess, “just write!” One thing I read was, “find your niche”, well my niche is simple, “just stay true to me and blog about whatever “cozy” (or idea) that is on my mind.

Which brings me to the name, “Cozy Styling.” Cozy Styling is meant for me and for others to share their cozy in life. Maybe your cozy is a cup of tea, coffee or matcha or even a nice run? Maybe it’s going to church, reading the bible? Maybe it is your latest fitness find, diet fad or gluten free recipe? Maybe your cozy is date night with your hunnie? Maybe it’s heading to the beach or to the boardwalk on a Summer Day/Night or a night out with friends? Your cozy may be just staying in with your family and playing games?

Cozy Styling is meant to help you find that cozy in life on the daily. (It is meant to help “me” find that cozy in life on the daily.)

I look at life and like I said, life is just so darn busy and man does it fly right on by … in my 20’s I had a mommy blog and didn’t really understand blogging or know what to do with it? However, at the time I had so many things going on. Being a new mom, giving up goals and aspirations on being a career woman, being broke, letting go of the old me, embracing the blessing of being the new me, etc. On top of mommying babies, nursing them, health things, etc. So, writing was my pause in life.

I’d blog while I was nursing or rocking my sweet babies. 💗💗💗

… but to be honest, I still don’t know much about blogging or becoming a blogger. Except writing, so for now, I will just write! Maybe it will turn into something? Maybe it won’t? However, my first step, just write!

So adding continued blogger to my list (with an actual domain now – ahhh how cool is this) I mean stepping out of my comfort zone with this domain.

I work part-time from home with Scentsy and Etsy – Cozy Styling (changing Etsy name soon.) However in 2022, my goal is to blog more and find a routine in all of this.

It’s a New Year, so New Goals. So, stay tuned …

~ Off to run errands and pick up our girls,

Jennifer @ Cozy Styling